Guide from erstmalreden.de
Many people wait a long time even though they notice something is wrong. Not because they do not care, but because the first step can become very big inside.
Shame, uncertainty, exhaustion, fear of the conversation, or hope that it will get better on its own can slow people down strongly. This is not a character flaw. Often it means the step needs to become smaller.
Many people think: "Maybe I am overreacting." "Others need help more than I do." "I should pull myself together." "I will take care of it next week." These thoughts are common. They do not have to decide whether you may seek help.
A first contact does not require big determination. Sometimes a prepared sentence, a message to a trusted person, or an appointment with a family doctor is enough. The goal is not to change your whole life immediately, but to get a first assessment.
If sleep, daily life, work, school, eating, relationships, or safety have been affected for a while, that is enough reason to ask for help. You do not have to prove that it is bad enough.
If you do not feel safe, have suicidal thoughts, or are afraid you might harm yourself or someone else, this is no longer a postponing issue. Then real help matters now: 112 in immediate danger, or a person who stays with you right away.
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