Guide from erstmalreden.de

I have experienced a severe loss

Grief can come after death, separation, farewell, or a major break. It can strongly affect body, sleep, daily life, and thoughts.

Grief does not have to look tidy

Some people cry a lot, others feel empty, angry, calm, or only keep functioning. Different reactions do not mean you grieve wrongly.

What can help today

For today, one small hold is enough: eat, drink, sleep, tell one person, make an appointment outside the home, or write down what should not stay alone.

When support makes sense

If you no longer sleep, cannot manage anything, withdraw strongly, panic, or do not feel safe, counseling, a doctor, or TelefonSeelsorge can be a first step.

In acute danger

If you are afraid you might harm yourself or cannot stay alone, urgent help matters. Call 112 in acute danger or contact a real person immediately.

What you can do now

  1. Tell one safe person.
  2. Choose one small hold for today.
  3. Do not stay alone in danger.

erstmalreden.de offers orientation and wording support. It does not replace counseling, therapy, diagnosis, or emergency help.